After you meet a woman and
date her, you get to know her better. You probably start feeling closer
to her and may even find yourself falling in love with her. But her
feelings may still remain a mystery to you. You’re not even sure whether
you’re doing things right. How can you get her to fall in love with
you? Here are 10 ways that you can make a woman fall in love with you,
and at the end of it, she’s sure to be crazy about you.
1. Display maturity
It’s always said that
women mature faster than guys and are often found complaining about how
immature they act. Impress her with the way you deal with situations and
your outlook on the whole. Show her how responsible you are about
finances, or serious you are about your career. And demonstrate your
ability to think clearly and rationally when disagreements crop up or a
conflict of interests presents itself.
TIP: Women love it when a
guy takes interest in their likes, dislikes, interests, family,
childhood and so many other areas. Talking to her about herself is the
best way to make her fall in love.
2. Romance her
Make her feel good by
keeping the romance alive in the relationship. You don’t have to spend a
whole lot of money doing this. Sure, there isn’t a woman alive who
doesn’t adore flowers and gifts, but you can also do things that don’t
cost a lot but can still enhance your relationship. Write her little
notes or send her a mushy card. Call her up just to tell her you’re
thinking about her and can’t wait to see her again. Be attentive and
make her feel cherished and truly special.Read on after the cut.
3. Faithful
Don’t ever give her occasion to doubt you. Let her
know that you have eyes only for her and the rest of the world takes a
backseat. Let her sense your commitment to her and your relationship.
Being able to trust someone and truly rely on him is a very powerful
feeling. So many people profess deep feelings and then cheat on their
partners. Don’t just tell her but show her that she can count on you.
Women need to feel secure and once that is established, it takes the
relationship to a higher level.
4. Time spent with her is precious
Make it clear that you
really treasure the time you spend with her, irrespective of what you’re
doing together. And prove it! For instance, if she suddenly tells you
she’d like to meet you because she’s finishing work early and you had
something else lined up, cancel it for her. That doesn’t mean you cater
to her to the exclusion of everything else, just that you sometimes
sacrifice something you care about to be with her. If she begs you to
come see a movie and you had plans with your buddies, do it for her and
let her know subtly that you did. She will surely reward you! Women also
love it if you do some girly stuff with them like shopping for
lingerie, and aren’t afraid of sacrificing your masculinity in the
process. It just makes you more of a man in their eyes!
5. Compliment her
You don’t have to go over
the top always telling her how good she looks or how gorgeous her hair
is or what a lovely outfit she’s wearing. A compliment has more effect
when it is sincere, well timed and often, out of the blue. While a woman
always loves hearing that she’s looking good, you can’t keep telling
her that. It will lose its charm eventually. A compliment is valued when
there is a surprise element to it. Telling her how witty you find her,
how her intelligence turns you on, appreciating how thoughtful and
generous she can be, or her gentle nature, all these are deeper
compliments, which, when paid sincerely, make the recipient feel ten
feet tall.
6. Laughter
Use humor as your biggest
ally. If she enjoys your company and looks forward to seeing you again,
you’re rapidly becoming an addiction, and that’s just what you’re aiming
for. It’s not about making her laugh over your one-liners and finding
you hilarious. It’s more about being on the same wavelength and enjoying
the other’s sense of humor too. Or finding humor in similar situations
or having a favorite serial or sitcom, which you talk about and cracks
you up. Finding the same joke funny, or sharing a smile, draws you
closer and makes you feel like kindred spirits. It’s a great feeling!
7. Learn what turns her on
And use it to advantage.
Find out just the kind of touch that excites her, how she loves to be
kissed. Don’t ever push her for sex or make her uncomfortable by coming
on too strong. Let her see the effect she has on you, yet keep a strong
rein on your passions if she decides she wants to call a stop to it. Let
her set the pace, and ensure she understands that while your desires
for her are strong, you will respect the limits she sets. Respect her
and her body and she will appreciate you more for it. Women love it when
they can see how much they turn you on and yet find you willing to take
it slow for their sake. Also, when you make love to her, don’t always
kiss her or caress her as a lead up to having sex. Do it just to make
her feel special and because you want to convey that to her, and she
will adore you for it.
8. Give her space
Don’t be possessive and
make her account to you regarding her whereabouts. Let her know you
trust her. Don’t expect her to spend all her free time with you. Let her
have her own life too. Often when in a relationship, people make the
mistake of spending every waking moment that they can manage together,
and in the process, alienate themselves from friends and even lose their
identity. Let her be her own person.
9. Thoughtful
You remember little things
she told you, and remind her of it at opportune moments. It may be that
she once mentioned she loves having chicken soup when she’s got a cold,
and you land up with some when she’s got the sniffles. Or she’s told
you how she adores a particular entrée at a popular restaurant and the
next time you go there, you order it and surprise her. It makes her feel
like you genuinely listen to her and take the trouble to act on it and
make her happy.
10. “I love you”
And of course, while showing her should give her the message, there’s a lot to be said for saying
it loud and clear. Tell her how important she is to you. You might want
to think about when you’re first going to tell her those three words.
If it's too early in the relationship, she might be skeptical that you
could feel so deeply so soon. And thereafter, it's not just choosing the
right moment, but making every small moment count. You don’t have to
wait only till you’re kissing her, or in bed. Saying it when it's least
expected makes it all the more precious. She might be telling you
something and the feeling just overwhelms you – tell her at that
instant. She won’t mind being interrupted mid-sentence!
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